This is basic and obvious, but apparently it needs to be said.
When white people don’t want black people at their water fountains, that’s the oppressor class withholding resources they control from the oppressed class.
When females don’t want males in their bathrooms, that’s the oppressed class seeking refuge from the oppressor class.
A better analogy would be white people demanding to speak at Black Expo.
Or Rachel Dolezal demanding access to a black scholarship.
Or white people being offended at Malcom X for being a separatist.
Or talking about “reverse racism.”
Or saying “all lives matter.”
All of these things have happened, and they were recognized as bullshit, as they should be.